27.8.08

8 years

The Art Of A Good Marriage - Wilferd Arlan Peterson

Happiness in marriage is not something that just happens.
A good marriage must be created.
In marriage the little things are the big things.
It is never being too old to hold hands.
It is remembering to say "I love you" at least once a day.
It is never going to sleep angry.
It is at no time taking the other for granted;
the courtship should not end
with the honeymoon, it should continue through the years.
It is having a mutual sense of values and common objectives.
It is standing together facing the world.
It is forming a circle of love that gathers the whole family.
It is doing things for each other, not in the attitude of duty or sacrifice,
but in the spirit of joy. It is speaking words of appreciation
and demonstrating gratitude in thoughtful ways.
It is not looking for perfection in each other.
It is cultivating flexibility, patience,
understanding and a sense of humor.
It is having the capacity to forgive and forget.
It is giving each other an atmosphere in which each can grow old.
It is a common search for the good and the beautiful.
It is establishing a relationship in which the independence is equal,
dependence is mutual and the obligation is reciprocal.
It is not only marrying the right partner, it is being the right partner.

Today we celebrate our 8 year anniversary. Ok, actually we celebrated a few weeks ago, but todays the day! :) Im so blessed to have Eric in my life. Hes an amazing person, the best daddy, a great husband, and my best friend. He works hard and Im so grateful. He makes me laugh (Dont tell him Im mostly laughing AT him, not with him.) Hes kinda cute too! ;)
I could go on about how wonderful he is but I should stop now incase he sees this, I dont want his head to get too big! haha

I love you Honey! xo

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